I am rewriting this to let everybody know that I am a standard member. So while you are thinking I am being a snob. I am actually using every asset at my disposal to contact all of you. I am an Army veteran and civilian government contractor also. I used to belong to a private swingers club, and those were some very enjoyable times. I have been celibate for a little over 5 years. A lot of it my choice, but not any more.