why not lets try the direct approach
I'm a successful Spanish (born in Spain) male in my mid 40s divorced and living in the Ironbound section of Newark(Don't panic now it's a very nice area.Height 5" 8", 165 lbs. Good sense of humor. Enjoy a good night out once in a while and quick getaways to the Caribbean in order to relieve the stress of the daily grind.
Looking for a woman who knows what she wants, and is not afraid of expressing it. She must be smart and easy to talk to.