your tongue lasher
cool,exciting,interesting,sexual,sensual; depending on whether that interest is the same.
I want her to be herself; to share her intimate feelings with me. And too, be able to express my inner feelings as well. I'm a workaholic; trying to rebuild my lifestyle; but still retain to make myself very private. So she needs to understand that; and try to make herself available for each other. She needs to be interesting to enjoy both sides of what we have experienced in our lives and what we can bring to the bed and out of the be in order to have meaningful engagement.