Looking for fun, or more,
Describing is tough, for all of us. I'm a cool guy, very smart, very good looking, but wishing I spent more time in the gym. I'm very into my family, but in private I wouldn't be confused as a "family" guy. I think "fun' is very important. Sexually, I think I'm a bit twisted, but I'd bet a lot of us, at this site, would be in the same mold. That's all I have for now.
Someone who is confident, attractive, and comfortable in her own skin & in her sexuality. Her/your sexual desires do not need to be the same as mine. Meshing of differences is where a lot of the fun is.